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Is your Body Language Letting you Down?
A job interview is your chance to convince an
employer that you’re the person they really want to hire. Your
verbal communication skills will get a good work-out here—how
you speak is often just as important as what you say. Even if
you understand the importance of effective verbal communication,
have you considered the fact that your body language might be
letting you down during that all-important interview?
Before you speak your first word, interviewers
have already formed their first impressions of you. Paying
attention to—and controlling—your body language will help make
that first impression a more favorable one.
The first few Minutes
Walk into the interview room confidently—upright
posture, with your head up. Shake hands with interviewers firmly
when invited to do so, and look directly at each interviewer
you’re introduced to.
When invited to sit down, try to choose a chair
that allows you to see all the interviewers clearly, and where
they can see you clearly. It’s better if you don’t have to twist
around in your chair to see interviewers who are located
slightly behind you.
Adopt a sitting posture that is relaxed but not
sloppy. Sit up straight in your chair, with your back against
the chair’s back, and avoid sitting on the edge of your
seat—this will make you look tense and nervous.
During the Interview
If you’re meeting with several interviewers, it’s
important to give them all equal time in terms of non-verbal
interaction. Look at whoever is speaking, and nod to indicate
your understanding when they emphasize something important. When
answering questions, look at each interviewer in turn—remember
to maintain eye contact— then look at the person who asked the
question at the end of your answer.
Unconscious fidgeting is definitely something to
be avoided, but it’s fine to use hand gestures to emphasize what
you’re saying. Let your interviewers be your guide in this
respect—if they tend to use hand gestures, you can safely do so,
but if they don’t make many hand movements, try to limit your
use of them.
Pay attention to the body language of your
interviewers as well as your own. If they shake their heads or
lean back in their seats and fold their arms, that might be a
sign that you’ve done or said something they find irritating.
Check yourself—are you talking too much, or interrupting
interviewers? Consider your interviewer’s body language as an
early warning system—if you see any signs of annoyance, it’s
time to quickly revise your interview style.
Still Stuck?
Try using the "The
Job Interview Secret"
Also, please review our Free
Interview Tips section.
If you need more help, please
consider using a Career
Counselor.
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